13在四十八章七节我们看见,雅各要离世时,记念拉结忧伤的死。他对拉结忠信,给她的儿子约瑟双倍的分。(创四八5~8,20,22。)雅各在四十八章对以法莲和玛拿西所作的,是记念拉结而作的。雅各的第一个儿子是流便,第二个儿子是西缅。他第十一个儿子约瑟,是拉结生的第一个儿子。雅各的第十二个儿子便雅悯,也是拉结生的。他的头两个儿子是利亚生的。然而,雅各想要立拉结所生之约瑟的两个儿子,成为他的头两个儿子,以顶替流便和西缅。在雅各的心里,约瑟的两个儿子,成了他的头两个儿子。在四十八章,约瑟把他两个儿子摆在雅各面前,雅各说,『我未到埃及见你之先,你在埃及地所生的以法莲和玛拿西,这两个儿子是我的;正如流便和西缅是我的一样。』(创四八5。)换句话说,他们要顶替流便和西缅。雅各似乎说,『约瑟,你的两个儿子,以法莲和玛拿西,不再是为你;他们是为我,而我是为拉结。』在雅各众子中的长子名分,藉著雅各渴望记念一直在他心上的拉结,就从流便转移到约瑟。雅各这样作,自然就立了拉结为他的正室。神尊重雅各所作的,在以色列人进入美地时,藉著拈阄分地,使其成为事实。今天在人类中,男女之间没有忠信。但在雅各的事例中,我们看见雅各对拉结的忠信和诚实。他从头一天看见她,就爱上了她,从来没有改变。雅各是忠信的,神尊重这样的忠信。在拉结死后多年,雅各立约瑟的两个儿子,以法莲和玛拿西,为他的头两个儿子。在那些年间,雅各从来没有忘记拉结。他对拉结的爱依然是忠信的。男女之间真挚的爱,总是为神所尊重。你若不爱一个女人,就不该娶她。你若娶她,就必须爱她,并且用忠信诚实的爱爱她。今天在人类社会中,这样的爱已经失去了。人今天爱某人,不久后就改变。最得罪神命定的,莫过于这种不忠信的爱。你若和某人结婚,你必须爱她到底。看见一个临死的人依然记念他所爱的人,是何等美好!雅各的爱从来没有改变。有些人也许对他说,『雅各,你一百四十七岁了,并且即将死去。拉结已经死了四十年。你不需要关心这事。你何必把约瑟叫来,请他把两个儿子给你,好顶替你的头两个儿子?雅各,你只要在床上安息,直到死去。』然而,在神的圣言中记载,雅各对拉结忠信,立约瑟的两个儿子为他的头两个儿子,使约瑟成为他的长子,能承受双分地土。因著神的主宰,当约书亚拈阄分地时,(书十四,)雅各所给约瑟的分,归给了以法莲和玛拿西。这意思是雅各所作的,为神所尊重。丈夫绝不该改变对妻子的爱。你若在对她的爱上忠信,神会尊重那样的忠信。这是最高的道德。
13In 4 8:7 we see that as Jacob was departing he remembered Rachel’s sorrowful death. He was faithful to her in giving her son Joseph a double portion (48:5-8, 20, 22). What Jacob did with respect to Ephraim and Manasseh in chapter forty-eight was done in remembrance of Rachel. Jacob’s first son was Reuben, and his second was Simeon. His eleventh son was Joseph, the first son born of Rachel. Jacob’s twelfth son, Benjamin, was also born of Rachel, His first two sons were born of Leah. Jacob, however, desired to make the two sons of Joseph, who was born of Rachel, his first two sons to replace Reuben and Simeon. In Jacob’s he art, Joseph’s two sons became his first two sons. In chapter forty - eight Joseph presented his two sons to Jacob, and Jacob said, “And now thy two sons, Ephraim and Manasseh, which were born unto thee in the land of Egypt before I came unto thee into Egypt, are mine; as Reuben and Simeon, they shall be mine” (v. 5). In other words, they would replace Reuben and Simeon. Jacob seemed to be saying, “Joseph, your sons Ephraim and Manasseh are no longer for you; they are for me, and I am for Rachel.” The birthright among Jacob’ss ons was shifted from Reuben to Joseph through Jacob’s desire to remember Rachel, who was continually on his heart. By doing this, spontaneously Jacob made Rachel his genuine wife. God honored what Jacob did and made it a fact by the allotting of the land at the time the children of Israel entered the good land. Today among the human race there is no faithfulness between men and women. But in the case of Jacob we see Jacob’s faithfulness and honesty toward Rachel. From the day he first saw her, he fell in love with her, and his heart never changed. Jacob was faithful, and God honored this faithfulness. Jacob made Joseph’ss ons, Ephraim and Manasseh, his first two sons years after Rachel’s death. During all these years, Jacob never forgot her. He was still faithful in his love toward her. Genuine love between a man and woman is always honored by God. If you do not love a woman, you should not marry her. But if you marry her, you must love her, and love her with a love that is faithful and honest. In human society today, this kind of love has been lost. A man may love someone today and change a short time later. Nothing offends God’so rd i nation more than such unfaithful love. If you marry a certain person, you must love her to the uttermost. How good it is to see a dying man who still remembered the one he loved! Jacob’s love never changed. Some might have said to him, “Jacob, you are one hundred forty-seven years old, and you are about to die. Rachel has been dead for forty years. You don’t need to be concerned about this. Why do you need to call Joseph in and ask him to give you his two sons to replace your first two sons? Jacob, simply rest on your bed until you die.” Nevertheless, Jacob’s faithfulness to Rachel in making Joseph’st wo sons his first two sons so that Joseph as his firstborn might inherit a double portion of the land is recorded in God’sho ly Word. Sovereignly, when the portions of the land were allotted under Joshua (Josh. 24), the portion Jacob gave to Joseph was allotted to Ephraim and Manasseh. This means that what Jacob did was honored by God. A husband should never change his love for his wife. If you are faithful in your love for her, God will honor that faithfulness. This is the highest morality.