11拉结见自己不给雅各生子,就嫉妒她姐姐,对雅各说,『你给我孩子,不然我就死了。』(创三十1。)雅各听见这话,就生气说,『叫你不生育的是神,我岂能代替祂作主呢?』(创三十2。)你想雅各在这种情况中有很多享受么?不,他一直受困扰。拉结于是把她的使女辟拉给雅各作妻子。(创三十3~4。)神在这件事上也是主宰的。辟拉生了两个儿子:一个名叫但,意思是『伸冤,』另一个名叫拿弗他利,意思是『我的争斗。』(创三十5~8。)但出生的时候,拉结宣告说,『神伸了我的冤,也听了我的声音,赐我一个儿子。』(创三十6。)神有没有为拉结表白,只有神知道。但照拉结的领会,神已经为她表白。当辟拉生拿弗他利的时候,拉结说,『我用大能的争斗与我姐姐争斗,并且得胜。』(创三十8,另译。)在希伯来文中,本节『大能的』这辞是用在神身上的。因此,这辞可译为『神的争斗。』这不是说拉结和利亚相争,乃是说她多次到神面前去,说,『神阿,你必须伸冤并表白。你给了我姐姐利亚四个儿子,但你一个也没有给我。』她这样用『神的争斗』来争斗。换句话说,她是在神面前争斗,并且,在辟拉生了拿弗他利之后,她以为已经得胜,赢得了争讼。然而,但和拿弗他利不是她生的,乃是她的使女生的。利亚看见拉结的使女生了两个儿子,她似乎说,『倘若拉结能把使女给雅各,我为甚么不能照样作?我也要这样作!』利亚于是把她的使女悉帕给雅各作妻子,她给雅各生了两个儿子-迦得和亚设。(创三十9~13。)迦得的意思是『万幸,』亚设的意思是『快乐。』迦得出生时,利亚说,『万幸!』(创三十。)亚设出生时,她说,『我快乐阿,因为众女子都要称我是有福的。』(创三十13,另译。)从好的一面说,利亚是幸福的,因她自己给雅各生了四个儿子,又藉著她的使女生了两个。她想她是快乐的,众女子都要称她为有福。在希伯来文,快乐与有福二辞字根相同。因此,快乐的人就是有福的人,有福的人就是快乐的人。这是利亚的观念。神又给利亚两个儿子:以萨迦和西布伦。(创三十17~20。)以萨迦这名的意思是『雇金。』他出生的时候,利亚说,『神给了我雇金,因为我把使女给了我丈夫。』(创三十18,直译。)利亚在深处必然想,以萨迦的出生是因为她用流便的风茄向拉结雇了雅各。这进一步指明这些女人之间的争竞。西布伦出生时,利亚说,『神赐我厚赏,我丈夫必与我同住,因我给他生了六个儿子。』(创三十20。)利亚似乎说,『我不要雅各离开我,我要他和我在一起。』在这记载中,我们清楚看见雅各妻子之间的争竞。
11When Rachel saw that she had borne Jacob no children, she envied her sister and said to Jacob, “Give me children, or else I die” (30:1). When Jacob heard this, he was angry and said, “Am I in God’s stead, who hath withheld from thee the fruit of the womb?” (30:2). Do you think that Jacob had much enjoyment in this situation? No, he was constantly troubled. Rachel then gave Jacob Bilhah her handmaid as his wife (30:3-4). God was sovereign in this matter also. Bilhah gave birth to two sons: Dan, whose name means “Judging,” and Naphtali, whose name means “My wrestling” (30:5-8). At the birth of Dan, Rachel declared, “God hath judged me, and hath also heard my voice, and hath given me a son” (30:6). Whether God had vindicated Rachel or not is known only to Him. But according to Rachel’s understanding, God had vindicated her. When Bilhah gave birth to Naphtali, Rachel said, “With mighty wrestlings have I wrestled with my sister, and I have prevailed” (30:8, Heb.). In Hebrew, the word mighty in this verse (great in KJV) is the word for God. Hence, this phrase may be rendered as “wrestlings of God.” This does not mean that Rachel fought with Leah; it means that she went to God many times, saying, “O God, You must judge and vindicate. You have given four sons to my sister Leah, but You have not given any to me.” She wrestled in this manner with the “wrestlings of God.” In other words, she had wrestled in the presence of God, and, after the birth of Naphtali, she thought that she had prevailed and won the case. However, Dan and Naphtali were not brought forth by her, but by her maid. When Leah saw that Rachel’s maid had given birth to two sons, she seemed to say, “If Rachel can give her maid to Jacob, then why can’t I do the same? Let me do it, too!” Leah then gave her maid Zilpah to Jacob as a wife and she bore him two sons—Gad and Asher (30:9-13). Gad means “Fortunate,” and Asher means “Happy.” When Gad was born, Leah said, “Fortunate!” (30:11, Heb.), and when Asher was born, she said, “Happy am I, for the daughters will call me blessed” 11 (30:13). In a good sense, Leah was fortunate because she had borne Jacob four sons herself and two more through her maid. She thought that she was happy and that all women would bless her. In Hebrew, the words happy and blessed are of the same root. Thus, a happy person is a blessed person and a blessed person is a happy person. This was Leah’s concept. God gave Leah two more sons: Issachar and Zebulun (30:17-20). The name Issachar means “Hire.” When he was born, Leah said, “God hath given me my hire, because I have given my maiden to my husband” (30:18). Deep within, Leah must have thought that Issachar was born because she had hired Jacob by giving Reuben’s mandrakes to Rachel. This is a further indication of the competition between these women. When Zebulun was born, Leah said, “God hath endued me with a good dowry; now will my husband dwell with me, because I have born him six sons” (30:20). Leah seemed to be saying, “I don’t want Jacob to leave me. I want him to stay with me.” In this record we clearly see the competition between Jacob’s wives.