15在所有的家庭里,孩子们都非常有要求,他们比其他的人要求得更多。作祖父的一无要求,乃是一直给人。但小孩子整天就是要糖果、饼干和玩具。我的孙子一直向祖母要东西。你越年幼,要求越多。也许你要求长老,要求弟兄姊妹,但你从来不要求自己。这证明你像小婴孩。婴孩不作甚么,只是要求。主也许需要等一些时间才答应我的祷告,但婴孩的祷告立刻就得著答应。要求多,证明你是幼小的。过度的祷告也是不成熟的标记。有些青年圣徒以为长老不谦卑或者不彀殷勤,就很幼稚的为他们祷告。你不这样为长老祷告,证明你已经长大了。不适当的为长老祷告,指明你是幼小的。许多为召会的祷告也是幼稚的。有些圣徒祷告:『主,我不敢将召会的事告诉你。但是主,你知道这光景。哦,主,求你为召会作些事情。』这样的祷告实际上是定罪召会。你这样祷告:就是控告召会。这样祷告,乃是求主对付召会。你为召会多多祷告,因为在你眼中,召会不能满足你的要求。然而,保罗没有这样为召会祷告。五十年前,我为召会或长老的祷告也常有责备、请求、要求、甚至控告。但主能为我作见证,我现在不那样为长老祷告了。这不是说他们是完全的,乃是说我不要求他们,我里面不受他们的困扰。
15In any family the children are very demanding, much more demanding than anyone else. The grandfather, on the contrary, demands nothing; instead, he is constantly giving. But all day long the little children are asking for candy, cookies, and toys. My grandchildren are constantly asking their grandmother for things. The younger you are, the more demands you make. You may make demands of the elders, and of the brothers and sisters, but you never make demands of yourself. This proves that you are like a little baby. A baby does nothing except make demands. While the Lord may take some time to answer my prayer, the prayers of the babies are answered immediately. Making many demands is an indication that you are young. Excessive praying may also be a sign of immaturity. Some young saints, thinking that the elders are not humble or diligent enough, pray for them in a childish way. Not praying for the elders in this way is a proof that you have grown up. Praying improperly for the elders indicates that you are young. The more you pray for them, the less mature you are. If you do not pray for the elders, then you must be grown up. Many prayers for the church are also childish. Some saints pray, “Lord, I dare not tell you about the church. But, Lord, You know the situation. O Lord, do something about it.” This kind of prayer is actually a condemnation of the church. When you pray like this, you accuse the church. To pray this kind of prayer is to ask the Lord to deal with the church. You pray so much for the church because, in your eyes, the church does not satisfy your requirements. Paul, however, did not pray for the church in this manner. Fifty years ago, I also prayed in the way of blaming, begging, demanding, and accusing. But the Lord can testify for me that during the past six months I have not prayed for the elders in Anaheim. This does not mean that they are perfect; it means that I do not make demands of them and that I am not inwardly bothered by them.