16撒母耳听见百姓这一切话,就将这话说给耶和华听,求问耶和华。耶和华对他说,只管依从他们的话,为他们立王。(21~22。)g.神的选民从神转向人因著坚持要有王,神的选民就从神转向人。我们在这里该学个功课:不论我们作什么,不论事情多好、多『属灵』,甚至多合乎圣经,只要我们有了顶替神的东西,那就是恶的。我们所作的也许是好事,但只要我们弃绝神作我们的头、我们的丈夫、我们的王,这些好事在神眼中就都是恶的。问题不在于好坏、对错,乃在于我们到底是接受神为我们的王,还是弃绝祂。甚至在诸如购物的小事上,我们也常有代替品,而不是接受神自己。这就是为什么拿细耳人一直要留长头发,以神自己作他的权柄,遮盖他的头。我们需要学习在婚姻生活中以神作我们的头。当我们与配偶吵嘴时,惟一解决的路,就是停下我们的争吵,来到我们的王、我们的头这里。虽然我是作丈夫的,但我不愿运用我作头的权柄;反之,我要与我的妻子一同到我的丈夫,也是我们的丈夫那里,看我们的丈夫,就是神自己,要对我们说什么。祂无论说什么,我们都接受。这就解决一切难处,而维持美好、正确的婚姻生活。
16Samuel heard all the words of the people and then consulted Jehovah, speaking their words in the hearing of Jehovah. Then Jehovah told him to listen to their voice and appoint a king to them (vv. 21-22). g. The Elect of God Turning from Him to a Man By insisting on having a king, the elect of God turned from God to a man. From this we should learn the lesson that no matter what we do, no matter how good, “spiritual,” and even scriptural it may be, as long as we have a replacement for God, that is evil. We may do good things, but those good things are evil in the sight of God as long as we reject Him as our Head, our Husband, and our King. It is not a matter of good or bad, right or wrong; it is a matter of whether we take God as our King or reject Him. Even in small matters such as shopping, we often take a replacement rather than God Himself. This is why the Nazarite must always keep his hair long, covering his head with God Himself as his authority. We need to learn to take God as our Head in our married life. When we argue with our spouse, the only way to settle the disagreement is to stop arguing and come to our King, our Head. Although I am the husband, I would not exercise my headship. Rather, I would go with my wife to my Husband, to our Husband, to see what our Husband, the very God, would say to us. Whatever He would say, we would take. This settles every problem and maintains a good and proper married life