7如果有人得罪我们,我们需要甘心乐意赦免人,那么我们和别人就不会有难处。然而,有些主的仆人一面绊跌别人,另一面又容易被别人得罪。因此,他们总是和人有难处。他们不是绊跌别人,就是被别人得罪。我们应当尽力不绊跌人,反要常常甘心乐意赦免得罪我们的人。你知道赦免是甚么意思?赦免就是不被得罪。按照主在十七章四节的话,即使一位弟兄一天七次得罪我们,我们总要赦免他。我们一赦免人,就不会被人得罪。然而我们若不赦免,就会被得罪。这里的点是赦免消除得罪。我们若不赦免人,就会被人得罪。然而我们若赦免人,就会消除得罪。假定一位弟兄得罪你,而你赦免他,你的赦免就会除去他的得罪。那么你们之间就不会有难处。然而假定这位弟兄得罪你,你不愿赦免他,不愿忘记他的冒犯,这会惹出麻烦,尤其是对你,因为你会被得罪而缠在其中。因此,我们应当避免绊跌人,也应当避免被人得罪。我们总该小心谨慎,不要得罪人。同时,我们总该乐意赦免人。
7If we are offended by someone, we need to be ready and willing to forgive that one. Then we shall not have problems with others. However, on the one hand, some servants of the Lord stumble others, and, on the other hand, are easily offended by others. Therefore, they are always having problems with people. Either they stumble others, or they are offended by others. We should try not to stumble others, but always be ready and willing to forgive anyone who may offend us. Do you know what it means to forgive? To forgive means not to be offended. According to the Lord’sword in 17:4, even if a brother sins against us seven times a day, we should always be ready to forgive him. As soon as we forgive someone, we shall not be offended by him. But if we do not forgive, we shall be offended. The point here is that forgiving annuls offending. If we do not forgive others, we shall be offended by them. But if we forgive them, we shall annul the offense. Suppose a certain brother offends you, and you forgive him. Your forgiving of him will annul his offending of you. Then there will be no problem between you. However, suppose this brother offends you, and you are not willing to forgive him and forget the offense. This will cause trouble, especially to you, for you will become entangled as the result of being offended. Hence, we should avoid stumbling others, and we should also avoid being offended by others. We should always be careful and cautious not to offend others. At the same time, we should always be willing to forgive others