23耶稣的母亲马利亚,在这里象征天然的人;天然的人与生命毫不相干,并且必须被神圣的生命征服。(约二3~5。)当酒用尽的时候,天然的人就出来了,甚至还祷告主。当马利亚告诉主说,『他们没有酒了。』主对她说,『妇人,我与你何干?我的时候还没有到。』(约二3~4。)我们常常和耶稣的母亲完全一样。我们就是今天的马利亚,是天然的人,按照自己天然的生命祷告。主经常容让我们在某种光景中酒用尽了,好给祂机会变死亡为生命。甚至在地方召会中,主也可能容让情形落到死亡里。在这样的情形里,天然的人会祷告说,『主阿,作些事挽救这个局面罢。』你若这样祷告,主就要转过来对你说,『我与你何干?在这件事上你与我毫不相干。』我们所有的人几乎都会有马利亚的反应。那么我们该作甚么?我们甚么也不该作。让死亡表面化,并显露出来,然后主耶稣就要进来。我们都必须承认,我们许多的祷告未蒙答应。比方说,好些已婚的弟兄为他们的妻子祷告,对主说,『主阿,你知道我的妻子。主,你必须改变她。』这是怎样的祷告?这是马利亚的祷告,天然人的祷告。不要那样祷告。让你妻子里面的死亡表面化。让拉撒路死而埋葬,然后主耶稣要来叫他从死人中复活。让你的妻子像拉撒路一样,死了,埋了,并且开始腐烂。你若这样作,主耶稣要来,变死亡为生命。我常常收到个人或召会来信求助说,『弟兄,我们太软弱,请来帮助我们。』每逢我收到这样的信,我就说,『你软弱,但你还没有死。即或你死了,你还没有开始发臭。』我们需要等到死亡的光景表面化;然后主耶稣就要进来变死亡为生命。主所作的每件事都是根据这个变死亡为生命的原则。
23Mary, the mother of Jesus, here signifies the natural man, which has nothing to do with life and which must be subdued by the divine life (vv. 3-5). When the wine was exhausted, the natural man came out and even prayed to the Lord. When Mary told the Lord, “They have no wine,” He said to her, “Woman, what have I to do with you? My hour has not yet come” (vv. 3-4). Often we are exactly like the mother of Jesus. We are today’s Mary, praying as a natural man according to our natural life. Frequently the Lord will allow the wine in certain situations to run out in order that He might have an opportunity to change death into life. Even in a local church, the Lord may allow the situation to go into death. In such a case, the natural man will pray, “O Lord, do something to rescue the situation.” If you pray in this way, the Lord will turn to you and say, “What have I to do with you? You have nothing to do with Me in this matter.” Nearly all of us would act the same way Mary did. What then should we do? We should not do anything. Let the death come to the surface and be exposed. Then the Lord Jesus will come in. We all must admit that many of our prayers have gone unanswered. For instance, many of the married brothers have prayed for their wives, telling the Lord, “O Lord, You know my wife. Lord, You must change her.” What kind of prayer is this? It is the prayer of Mary, the prayer of the natural man. Do not pray in that way. Let the death in your wife come to the surface. Let Lazarus be dead and buried. Then the Lord Jesus will come and raise him from the dead. Let your wife, like Lazarus, die, be buried, and begin to putrefy. If you do this, the Lord Jesus will come and change death into life. Quite often I have received letters from individuals or from churches who are crying for help, saying, “Brother, we are so weak. Please come to help us.” Whenever I have received such a letter, I said, “You are weak, but you are not yet dead. Even if you are dead, you have not yet begun to smell.” We need to wait until the death situation comes to the surface; then the Lord Jesus will come in to change death into life. Everything that the Lord does is according to this principle of changing death into life.