13『作丈夫的,要爱你们的妻子。』这命令听起来很好,也容易履行。这命令赐下时,人心思中善的律立刻响应:『是的,我愿这样作。』然而,他肉体中恶的律知道这点并回答:『你要履行这律法么?你不知道我在这里么?』结果乃是失败。他没有爱妻子,反而打她一巴掌,或在怒中扔刀叉。作妻子的也有类似的经历,她们凭自己想要遵守律法;这律法告诉她们要服从自己的丈夫。妻子心思中善的律喜欢这命令,并且说,『我愿顺从。作为一个好妻子,我当然必须使自己服从丈夫。我愿这样作。』妻子若这样说,她会发觉另一个律在伺机攻击。恶的律会说,『你信你能这样作么?我在这里给你看见你不能。』结果又是失败。她没有服从丈夫,反而对他生气。几分钟以后,她就为著她可怜的光景流泪。这是罗马七章的经历。在罗马七章我们看见三个律:第一个律,神的律,命令并要求;第二个律,我们心思中善的律,很快响应;第三个律,我们肢体中罪的律,总是儆醒,与我们心思中善的律交战,并打败我们,掳掠我们,监禁我们。每个律都有各自的一面。罗马七章描述我们每个人的经历。甚至今天你也可能继续重复罗马七章。不要以为你有甚么不一样。然而,照著神的经纶,罗马七章不是必需的。我们在前面有一篇信息中曾指出,罗马八章是接续罗马六章。然而,由于我们可怜的情形,我们需要罗马七章暴露我们,并帮助我们。有些基督徒坚持说,罗马七章是必需的,就经历而言,牠必定介于罗马六章与罗马八章之间。有些好基督徒持守这观念。你仍固守罗马七章必须介于六章与八章之间的观念么?毫无疑问,罗马七章描述保罗个人的经历。圣经教师当中的争辩,与这经历发生的时间有关-在保罗得救以前或以后。有些人相信罗马七章是罗马六章之经历的继续,但我6们若仔细读罗马六至八章,就会发现罗马七章是说到保罗得救以前的经历。在七章二十四节保罗说,『我是个苦恼的人!』在八章一节他说,『如此,现今那些在基督耶稣里的,就没有定罪了。』罗马八章一节证明,罗马七章所叙述的经历发生在保罗得救以前。这不是他目前的经历,因为他说,现今那些在基督耶稣里的,就没有定罪了。所以,罗马七章的经历发生于保罗在基督里以前;那是他得救以前的经历。
13The command “Husbands, love your wives” sounds so good and easy to fulfill. When this command is given, the law of good in a man’s mind immediately responds, “Yes, I will do it.” However, the evil law in his flesh learns of this and answers, “Are you going to fulfill this law? Don’ty ou know that I am here?” The result is defeat. Instead of loving his wife, he may slap her face or throw his knife and fork in anger. Wives have a similar experience when they try in themselves to keep the law which tells them to submit to their own husbands. The good law in the wife’s mind is fond of this demand and says, “I will obey. As a good wife, I must surely submit myself to my husband. I will do this.” If a woman says this, she will find that another law is waiting for an opportunity to attack. The evil law will say, “Do you believe that you can do this? I am here to show you that you cannot.” Once again, the result is failure. Instead of submitting to her husband, she becomes angry at him instead. A few minutes later, she weeps because of her pitiful situation. This is the experience of Romans 7. In Romans 7 we see three laws: the first law, the law of God, demands and makes requirements; the second law, the law of good in our mind, is quick to respond; the third law, the law of sin in our members, is always on the alert to war against the law of good in our minds and to defeat us, capture us, and imprison us. Each law has its own aspect. Romans 7 describes the experience of each one of us. Perhaps even today you continue to repeat Romans 7. Do not think that you are different. According to God’s economy, however, Romans 7 is not necessary. As we pointed out in a previous message, Romans 8 continues Romans 6. Nevertheless, due to our poor situation we need Romans 7 to expose us and to help us. Some Christians insist that Romans 7 is necessary, that, experientially speaking, it must come between Romans 6 and Romans 8. Some good Christians hold this concept. Do you still cling to the thought that Romans 7 is necessary between Romans 6 and 8? There is no doubt that Romans 7 describes Paul’s personal experience. The argument among the teachers of the Bible concerns the time when this experience occurred—before or after Paul’ss alvation. Although some believe that Romans 7 is a continuation in experience of Romans 6, if we read Romans through 8 carefully, we will discover that Romans 7 relates Paul’s experience before he was saved. In 7:24 Paul said, “Wretched man that I am!” In 8:1 he said, “There is now then no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.” Romans 8:1 proves that the experience narrated in Romans 7 occurred before Paul was saved. It is not his present experience, because he said that there is now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus. Therefore, the experience of Romans 7 occurred before Paul was in Christ; it was his experience before he was saved.