11论到他这个人,保罗说他在哥林多人中间,见面的时候是谦卑的,(一节的卑鄙,是当日异教徒对基督徒谦卑美德的鄙视语,)不在的时候,向他们却是放胆的。保罗是勇敢的,在他的书信里放胆说出哥林多人中间真实的光景。我们可以从保罗学习,在人面前是温柔的,不在他们那里的时候却是勇敢的。当你与人在一起时,你不该太勇敢。但你可以勇敢的写信给那个人。有些人会说,『我与一个人见面时是勇敢的;但不与他在一起时,我的勇敢好像就不见了。』这指明你在那人面前的勇敢是不得当的。假若你离开那人,你的勇敢还没有消失,那种勇敢可能就是合式的。保罗在写给哥林多人的书信里非常勇敢。但是我们如果能在保罗面前,我们会发现他是温柔且谦卑的。从保罗的为人方式中,我们可以学到许多功课。当我们想要勇敢对付一个人的时候,我们该等候一段时间,看看我们不在那个人面前的时候,我们是否仍然勇敢。这就是保罗对付哥林多人的方式。他藉著基督的温柔与和蔼恳求他们,并且他在他们那里的时候是谦卑的,但写信给他们的时候却是勇敢的。从这几节经节里,我们看见保罗的温柔、和蔼、谦卑、与合式的勇敢。
11Regarding his person, Paul says that he was lowly when among the Corinthians, but was of good courage when absent from them. The apostle was bold, having courage to speak out in his Epistle the real situation among the Corinthians. We can learn from Paul to be meek when in the presence of others, but to be bold when we are absent from them. When you are with a particular person, you should not be too bold. However, you may be bold in writing a letter to that person. Some may say, “I can be bold when I am present with a person; however, when I am absent from that one, my boldness seems to evaporate.” This indicates that your boldness in that person’s presence is not proper. If your boldness does not evaporate after you have left a person’s presence, then it may be a proper kind of boldness. Paul was very bold in writing to the Corinthians. But if we could be in Paul’s presence, we would find him meek and lowly. There is much for us to learn from the way Paul conducted himself. Whenever we want to treat a person in a bold way, we should wait until we are no longer in that person’s presence and see i four boldness remains. This was Paul’sway of dealing with the Corinthians. He entreated them through the meekness and forbearance of Christ, and he was lowly among them, but he was bold in writing to them. In these verses we see Paul’s meekness, forbearance, lowliness, and proper boldness