2我们不该持守一种观念,认为我们不能成为像保罗那样的使徒。使徒们是所有信徒的榜样。保罗不是一个特殊的人,他没有达到一个别人无法达到的境地。认为使徒是独特的,这观念乃是罗马天主教的传统。这传统与彼得是基督惟一的继承人,因此是第一任教皇的观念有关。这是属魔鬼的观念!彼得绝不是独特的,他乃是跟随主之人的榜样。他特别是在基督里犹太信徒的榜样。保罗特别是外邦信徒的榜样。他在提前一章十六节说,『然而,我所以蒙了怜悯,是要叫耶稣基督在我这罪魁身上,显示祂一切的恒忍,给后来信靠祂得永远生命的人作榜样。』保罗既然是我们的榜样,就没有一个人该说我们不能像他一样了。弟兄们也许相信他们能成为今日的使徒,但姊妹们也许很难相信这也适用在她们身上。为了帮助姊妹们,我们需要指出在神家里没有女儿。神只有儿子,没有女儿。神的长子基督有弟兄,但没有姊妹。这指明按生命来说,所有的信徒,包括姊妹们在内,都是神的儿子和基督的弟兄。故此,保罗在他的书信中称呼弟兄们,而不是弟兄姊妹们。当然,姊妹包括在弟兄这个辞里面。就著生命而言,所有的信徒都是男人。但就著爱而言,我们都是女人。基督是我们的新郎,我们是祂的新妇。新郎和新妇之间的关系乃是一件爱的事,不是生命的事。婚姻生活惟一的要求乃是爱。所以,我们是活神的活儿子,同时也是可爱新郎的亲爱新妇。那么,你怎样答覆这个问题:我们这些在基督里的信徒是男人还是女人?正确的回答是说,就著生命而言,我们是男人;但就著爱而言,我们是女人。
2We should not hold the concept that we cannot be an apostle like Paul. The apostles are examples of what all believers should be. Paul was not an extraordinary person, and he did not reach a state that no one else can attain. The concept that the apostles are unique is a Roman Catholic tradition. This tradition is related to the concept that Peter was the unique successor of Christ and therefore the first pope. What a devilish concept! Far from being unique, Peter is an example of one who followed the Lord. In particular, he is an example to Jewish believers in Christ. Paul is a pattern especially for Gentile believers. In 1 Timothy 1:16 he says, “Howbeit for this cause I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might show forth all long-suffering, for a pattern to them which should hereafter believe on him to life everlasting.” Since Paul is our pattern, none of us should say that we cannot be like him. Although the brothers may believe that they can be today’s apostles, the sisters may find it very difficult to believe that this also applies to them. As a help to the sisters, we need to point out that in God’s house hold there are no daughters. God has only sons, not daughters. Christ, the firstborn Son of God, has brothers, but He does not have sisters. This indicates that, according to life, all the believers, including the sisters, are sons of God and brothers of Christ. For this reason, in his Epistles Paul addresses the brothers, but not the brothers and sisters. The sisters, of course, are included in the term brothers. According to life, all the believers are males. However, according to love, we all are females. Christ is our Bridegroom, and we are His Bride. The relationship between the Bride and the Bridegroom is a matter of love, not a matter of life. Love is the unique requirement of married life. Therefore, we are living sons of the living God, whereas we are the loving Bride of our dear Bridegroom. How, then, would you answer this question: Are we, the believers in Christ, males or females? The proper way to answer is to reply that according to life we are males, but according to love we are females.