22二十四章一至四节论到休妻。人娶妻之后,若是见她有不当之事,写了休书打发她离开;妇人嫁了别人以后,后夫若轻看她,也写休书打发她离开,前夫就不可再娶她。同样,若后夫死了,前夫也不可再娶她。这样的事在耶和华面前乃是可憎恶的。神的子民在一切的行事上都必须敬畏神,因祂要祂的子民凡事纯洁、正当。二十四章一节的『不当』一辞很有意义。不当的行事为人会破坏婚姻。所以各种不当的行为,我们都必须避免。神创造了男人和女人,二者之间有很大的差别。姊妹在行事为人的时候,总该想到自己是女子。比如,姊妹无论已婚或单身,与弟兄交谈都不该太过自由,也不该和弟兄坐得太近。不仅如此,姊妹该避免不当的穿著,不要有不当的穿著打扮。穿衣的目的主要不是为著御寒,乃是为著遮盖裸露。我们乃是神的子民,即使在穿著的事上,也该为神作见证。姊妹若避免不当的事,就保守自己,并维持她们女子的身分。为了要有正确的婚姻生活,我们必须避免一切的不当。
22In 24:1-4 we have a word concerning divorce. When a man married a woman and, having found some indecency in her, he wrote her a bill of divorce and sent her away, and she went to be another man’s wife, and the latter husband despised her and wrote her a bill of divorce and sent her away, the former husband could not return to take her again. Likewise, if the latter husband died, the former husband could not take her again. Such a thing was an abomination before Jehovah. God’sp eople must fear Him in doing all things, for He wants to see that His people are pure and decent in every way. The word indecency in 24:1 is significant. Indecency kills marriage. Therefore, we all must avoid every kind of indecency. God has created us male and female, and there is a big difference between male and female. In her conduct, a sister should always be mindful of the fact that she is a female. For example, a sister, whether married or single, should not talk too freely with a brother or sit too closely to a brother. Furthermore, the sisters should avoid indecency in the matter of dress, not clothing themselves in an indecent manner. The purpose of clothing is not primarily to protect us from the cold but to cover our nakedness. As God’sp eople, we should be a testimony to Him even in the way we clothe ourselves. If the sisters avoid indecency, they will preserve themselves and maintain their status as females. For the sake of a proper married life, we must avoid all indecency.