3腓利门十六节使这关系非常清楚。保罗说到欧尼西母:『不再是奴仆,乃是高过奴仆,是亲爱的弟兄,对我固然是如此,对你,不拘在肉身上,或在主里,岂不都更是这样。』藉著重生,欧尼西母已超过奴仆,甚至超过自由的人,因为他成了亲爱的弟兄。现今欧尼西母与腓利门的关系不但在肉身上,也在主里:在肉身上是奴仆,在主里是弟兄。在肉身上,欧尼西母是弟兄作了奴仆;在主里,他是奴仆作了弟兄。所以腓利门必须接纳欧尼西母,并且亲爱、亲密的接受他。当然,他不是在旧人、旧社会制度里接纳他,乃是在基督里,在新人里接纳他。虽然欧尼西母仍是腓利门的奴仆,但在基督里他成了腓利门的弟兄。现今在新人里,腓利门必须接纳欧尼西母为弟兄,为身分平等的人。这里我们看见保罗推荐一位弟兄给新人接纳。腓利门书没有题起『新人』这辞。但我们察看这卷书所描绘的情况,就看见保罗不是推荐弟兄给他当时所在城市的地方召会,乃是给一个遥远城市的地方召会。这指明保罗的推荐是在新人的范围里进行。我们已经指明,这能由歌罗西三章十一节证明,那里告诉我们,在新人里没有为奴的或自主的。保罗写信给腓利门时,他也许这样想:『欧尼西母成了主里亲爱的弟兄。现今我要推荐这奴仆给自主的弟兄。我愿帮助他们二位看见,身为弟兄,他们是平等的。一位该被接纳,另一位必须愿意接纳他。』我说腓利门书是在新人里信徒身分平等的例证,就是这个意思。只要我们看见信徒在新人里有平等的身分,我们中间就不会有关于社会阶级、国籍、或种族的难处。我们与不同的人就不会有难处。以任何方式区别人的人,都不是实行正确的召会生活。我们若要有真实的召会生活,就必须接纳所有的圣徒,无论他们的种族、国籍、或社会阶级是甚么。事实上,有许多地方的信徒不愿意这样作。结果,他们无法有正确的召会生活。
3Philemon 16 makes this relationship very clear. Concerning Onesimus Paul says, “No longer as a slave, but above a slave, a beloved brother, especially to me, and how much more to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.” Through regeneration Onesimus had become more than a slave and even more than a free man, for he had become a beloved brother. Now Onesimus had a relationship with Philemon “both in the flesh and in the Lord”: in the flesh as a slave and in the Lord as a brother. In the flesh Onesimus was a brother as a slave, and in the Lord he was a slave as a brother. Philemon, therefore, had to receive Onesimus and embrace him in a loving, intimate way. Of course, he was to receive him not in the old man, the old social system, but in Christ and in the new man. Although Onesimus was still Philemon’s slave, in Christ he had become Philemon’s brother. Now, in the new man, Philemon had to receive Onesimus as a brother and one of equal status. Here we see Paul’s recommendation of a brother for acceptance in the new man. In the book of Philemon there is no mention of the expression “the new man.” But as we examine the situation portrayed in this book, we see that Paul was recommending a brother not to a local church in the city where he was at the time, but to a local church in a remote city. This indicates that Paul’s recommendation took place within the sphere of the new man. As we have already indicated, this can be proved by Colossians 3:11, where we are told that in the new man there is no bond or free. As Paul was writing to Philemon, he may have been thinking something like this: “Onesimus has become a dear brother in the Lord. Now I wish to recommend him, a slave, to a brother who is a free man. I want to help them both realize that as brothers they are equal. One should be received, and the other must be willing to receive him.” This is what I mean in saying that the Epistle to Philemon is an illustration of the equal status of the believers in the new man. As long as we see that the believers have an equal status in the new man, there will be no problems among us concerning social rank, nationality, or race. We shall have no problems with different peoples. Those who discriminate among people in any way do not practice the proper church life. If we would have the genuine church life, we must receive all the saints regardless of race, nationality, or social rank. It is a fact that in many places believers are not willing to do this. As a result, they cannot have the proper church life.