5同样的原则,五章主要的点乃是召会作新妇。主要的点不是保罗劝勉妻子要服从自己的丈夫,或丈夫要爱自己的妻子。召会作新妇,需要比实际与恩典更柔细、更深刻的东西,就是需要爱与光。实际(真理)不像光那样柔细,恩典不像爱那样深刻、亲近。就著召会是新妇而言,保罗在五章说到爱与光。召会作新妇需要在爱里并在光中的生活,这事实可由我们在婚姻生活里的经历来证明。如果夫妻只凭著恩典、照著实际(真理)生活在一起,他们的婚姻生活就非常可怜。我的妻子若按著恩典对待我,却不给我爱,我会非常不满足。我若按著恩典对待她,却没有爱,她也会有同样的感觉。婚姻生活不是基于恩典,乃是基于爱。照样,婚姻生活不是基于实际(真理),乃是基于光。夫妻若考虑怎样彼此对待才对,那是何等的可怜。为著夫妻之间的亲密关系,只有实际(真理)是不彀的,还必须有光。因此,正确的婚姻不仅是按著实际(真理)并凭著恩典,更是在爱里并在光中。你的婚姻生活是照著实际(真理)并凭著恩典,还是在爱里且在光中?假如一个作妻子的对她丈夫说,『我为你作的每一件事,都是按著实际(真理)并凭著恩典。我所作的,没有一件是错的或假的。不仅如此,每件事都是凭著主全丰全足的恩典作的。』这听起来不像婚姻中该有的亲密,倒像是法庭上的冷漠。在婚姻生活里,妻子与丈夫之间的关系,应该是柔细、光明、并亲密的。
5In the same principle, the main point in chapter five is the church as the Bride. The main point is not Paul’s exhortation regarding wives submitting to their own husbands or husbands loving their own wives. As the Bride, the church needs something finer and deeper than truth and grace. There is the need for love and light. Truth is not as fine as light, and grace is not as deep or intimate as love. With respect to the church as the Bride, in chapter five Paul speaks of love and light. The fact that the church as the Bride requires a living in love and in light can be proved by our own experience in married life. If a husband and wife live together merely by grace and according to truth, their married life will be very poor. If my wife were to deal with me according to grace but offer me no love, I would be extremely dissatisfied. She would feel the same if I dealt with her according to grace without love. Married life is based not upon grace, but upon love. In like manner, married life is based not upon truth, but upon light. How pitiful it would be if a husband and wife were always considering the right way to be have toward each other. For the intimate relationship between husband and wife, mere truth is not adequate. There must be light. Therefore, a proper marriage is not merely according to truth and by grace, but is in love and in light. Is your married life according to truth and by grace, or is it in love and in light? Suppose a wife says to her husband, “Everything I do for you is according to truth and by grace. Nothing I do is wrong or false. Furthermore, everything is by the Lord’s sufficient grace.” This does not sound like the intimacy of a marriage, but sounds like the coldness of a law court. In married life the relationship between wife and husband should be fine, bright, and intimate.