10歌罗西三章十八节至四章一节,是保罗对作妻子、丈夫、儿女、父亲、奴仆、和主人者的嘱咐。妻子要服从丈夫,丈夫要爱妻子;儿女要顺从父母,父亲不要惹儿女的气;奴仆要顺从主人,主人要公公平平的对待奴仆。但妻子怎样服从丈夫,丈夫怎样爱妻子?服从或爱惟一的路就是在主的名里,与主是一。请注意三章十八节至四章一节是直接继续保罗在三章十六至十七节的话。这就是说,我们若不藉著让基督的话丰丰富富的住在我们里面,而在主耶稣的名里,与祂是一,我们就无法服从或爱。要履行保罗在歌罗西这段所给的一切嘱咐,就要『在主耶稣的名里』。姊妹若与主调和,并与祂是一,自然会服从丈夫。同样,丈夫若与主调和,自然会爱妻子。照样,儿女会孝敬父母,父亲会避免惹儿女的气,奴仆会顺从主人,主人也会公公平平的对待奴仆。这就是说,妻子必须在主的名里服从丈夫,丈夫必须在主的名里爱妻子。不但如此,儿女孝敬父母,父母照顾儿女,奴仆顺从主人,主人公平的对待奴仆,这一切都该在主的名里。
10In Colossians 3:18 — 4:1 Paul gives a charge to wives, husbands, children, fathers, slaves, and masters. The wives are to be subject to their husbands, the husbands are to love their wives, the children are to obey their parents, the fathers are not to provoke their children, the slaves are to obey their masters, and the masters are to grant their slaves that which is just and equal. But how is a wife to submit to her husband, or a husband to love his wife? The only way to submit or to love is to be in the name of the Lord, to be one with the Lord. Notice that 3:18—4:1 is the direct continuation of Paul’sword in verses 16 and 17. This means that if we are not in the name of the Lord Jesus, one with Him by having the word of Christ dwell in us richly, we cannot submit or love. The fulfillment of all the charges given by Paul in this portion of Colossians comes out of being “in the name of the Lord Jesus.” If a sister is mingled with the Lord and one with Him, she will spontaneously submit to her husband. Likewise, if a husband is mingled with the Lord, he will automatically love his wife. In like manner, a child will honor his parents, a father will refrain from provoking his children, a slave will obey his master, and a master will give to his slave what is just and equal. This means that a wife must submit to her husband in the name of the Lord, and a husband must love his wife also in the name of the Lord. Furthermore, children should obey their parents, parents should care for their children, servants should obey their masters, and masters should be fair to their slaves—all in the name of the Lord.